You should always check references, ask probing questions, search out answers, and find ways to learn more about what you're being told. This is a catch all but it is important.
"You have your own treasure house. Why do you search outside"?
Comic books are often an exercise for the readers, who have to search out visual cues and character tags to figure out which character is which.
In general, women are much more perceptive and search out for personality more than just good looks.