Your grandfather urged repeated forgiveness ingratitude, riot, and extravagance and all that.
If we let go of a relief, forgiveness is a favor. Everything will become simple.
Include traits such as: accountability, caring, citizenship, conservation, courage, empathy, endurance, forgiveness, honesty, integrity, justice, loyalty, peacefulness, problem solving, purpose, respect, responsibility, self discipline and wisdom.
To open their eyes, and to turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan unto God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins, and inheritance among them which are sanctified by faith that is in me.
That's why, sometimes, the initial act of forgiveness may seem relatively easy, but dealing with the emotions that follow every time you see that person, or speak to them or just think about them, can be harder to deal with.