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What is the main testing ground of fears about incomplete or inadequate child rearing? The college admission process.

If you are afraid you don't discipline your children enough, the evidence of parental failure is right there in front of everyone. The child is not filling out her college applications !

If you are afraid that you have allowed your children to watch too much television and settle for low grades, you will have to answer for the consequences.

The over-involvement of many parents in the process is, from my perspective, a cover for this deep parental anxiety: Did I do a good job with this child? Did I do everything I needed to do for this child? Is this child going to have a good life? I have seen many parents, dive back into their children's lives at college admission time, trying to fill all of their wisdom and discipline into their children at the last moment.

Parents may need to be sure as their children leave the nest that they really have taught them how to fly. Since it is impossible to assess the quality ofwhat parents have done for their children at this point, the next best thing is the status of the college to which the child is admitted. From the point of an anxious parent, an "Ivy League college" child is proofofbetter child rearing than a "small college" child.

I once sat with a talented, weak senior girl and her brilliant parents. She, they, and the school had to decide whether she should remain in school or go into a hospital. In light ofher anorexia(), the school recommended strongly that she not file her early application to Princeton. Upon hearing this, the girl looked at the adults in the room and said, "If I can't apply early to Princeton, I'II die." Her parents were also eager to have her get into Princeton. Why did they all need this so desperately?

Because, in this case, something was wrong in the family. Due to some weakness in her upbringing, this child was not happy or self-confident. Yet she was eighteen, the culture required her to leave home. The psychological solution for them all was the comforting vision of a great college. Somehow going there would make her life fine and defend her parents' child rearing.

Such fears about letting go of an unfinished child exist in all families. How can we let go of a child who is still so young in so many ways? It is painful and has no cure except time and hope. For parents looking for a painkiller, the college admission process is where they can work out their anxieties.

32. What does the underlined word "rearing" ( Para.l) mean?

A. Adopting. B. Raising. C. Educating. ling.

33. What is implied in parents' over-involvement in their children's college admission process in the author's view?

A. Care and concern. protection.

C. Great parental wisdom. parental anxiety.

34. What should parents do according to the author?

A. Help children fill out their college applications.

B. Fall into children's lives at college admission time.

C. Prepare children for the future before they leave home.

D. Access the quality of what they have done for their children.

35. According to the passage, what can defend the parents, child rearing?

A.A great and hope.